Getting your Heart’s Desire.
- Osa Eka
- Oct 7, 2016
- 4 min read
Getting what you desire in this day and age, especially either when you have just finished university or when you are conducting business as a start-up, can be an absolutely dreadful experience. You feel as though the world is against you and you cannot seem to do anything right. You get a wide variety of emotions; anger, pain, regret, resentment and a massive hate towards the world. You blame everything and everyone, and before you know it, you find yourself in a sinkhole of the hells of life. You doubt and continue to doubt yourself until you give up.
Firstly don’t give up, its silly. Here’s why…
FIRST STEP

The first step to getting your hearts desire is starting work on yourself. You have to come to the realization that you are the captain of your life. You are in control of everything your mind throws at you, be it negative or positive. You have to somehow break yourself down to basics and go back to the infancy of your thoughts.
An elaboration on this would be; go back to what you wanted to be as a child. Remember the times in your life when you were happy and driven to the point you felt like superman or wonder woman. These thoughts and feelings mixed with the fact that you are aware that you are in control of your mind and life will open doors you never thought possible.
Working on yourself and gaining control of your mind is the only way to get your hearts desire and it is the first step in doing so. Realize that you are the King or Queen of everything in your life. In doing so you will learn to block out what I refer to as “outside noise”. This noise comes from “family, friends, strangers, politics, the running’s of the time you are living in and whatever else you will label as noise. Do fun things and find ways to make yourself laugh and be in a positive space. Believe me, by doing this you’ll start to get what you want.
SECOND STEP

Upon realizing that you are in control of your mind, thoughts and other factors that have an effect on you, you then have to physically do something that will enable you to get your hearts desire. You have to get up and write that email, send that letter, make that phone call and do whatever you know you have to do that is small enough to bring you your heart’s big desire. It’s like this; if you want to go and get some food at the shops, you have to get up and get it. If you want to go to the airport to travel, you have to walk to the car to get to the airport. You don’t just appear at the airport or shops. You physically have to take an action. So I ask you this, why would you not do the same if you wanted that million pound investment? All you have to do is pick up the phone and ask. People do not ask, so they do not get. Ask with enthusiasm and to do so you have to take step one. You cannot get something whilst you are down. You get it whilst you are up.
There are so many books and knowledge for you to study to get what you want no matter the field and yet people do not invest in this. They would rather go to a club or on instagram looking at other people’s lives. Drown out the noise. Put your phone away for the day and do something. You are the only one that can put food on your table. Note this!
I encourage you to get in a positive headspace and send the email. If you do use your phone, call the contacts you know can help you get what you want. Instead of typing “cats” on Google, type the field you wish to be in and the top people or companies in that field and study.
Do something. I beg of you do something. If not, you will remain where you currently are. If it is raining, what you do is get an umbrella or put your hoodie up. These are physical acts.
THIRD STEP

This step is beyond important as this goes beyond what is physical. This is you using your mind, body and soul to know that you already have what you want. Having faith that you will get what you want especially after completing steps one and two, will enable you to take more action. You will start to feel an energy that only you can describe and you will begin to put your life together as if you were playing with LEGOs.
Believing that every step you take is the right one will help you in continuing your journey to getting your heart’s desire. Having belief if very powerful. You cannot know everything as a human being but when you have belief you can know yourself and your limitations, which end up being none. You are only limited by the limits you place on yourself.
Trust that every decision you make is the right one. Trust that you know how to get the business contact you want, the luxury lifestyle and family you want and that influence you wish to place upon the world.
Having faith, belief and trust opens the gates to all of life’s riches. Before you know it, you start to get braver and execute all the insane ideas you have. You start to see that everything in your mind is possible. You don’t have to know, you just have to believe.
Put yourself in the class of a winner, then you’ll get your Heart’s Desire.
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And remember… STUDY!

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